Strategies for how to live after spiritual awakening. Navigating the pitfalls and peculiar challenges of the post-enlightenment transition. What’s sex like after awakening? How does spiritual enlightenment alter relationships, family, career and financial prospects?  What do you do if you find yourself in a spiritual Limbo? How to deal with a sudden and profound lack of any sense of self, motivation or context.

Practical advice for newly enlightened people who want to know how to engage in life again and not end up a spiritual hermit or guru.

Being Human

Get to know your way around the Human Mental Apparatus. You’re not who you think you are. Where do your thoughts come from? Are they even yours? Do you allow an inner Narrator to stand as a filter between you and every perception, every feeling, every experience? Are you able to self-regulate your thoughts and moods? Are you able to choose your perspective?

We’re thrust into this human vehicle at birth without any kind of manual on how to operate it. It’s never too late to learn.

Your mind isn’t the enemy. It’s just a tool you haven’t learned to use.

Expanded Perception

The archaic term “psychic” is often used to describe a host of Ultra Sensory abilities. Some of us are born this way: clairvoyant, telepathic, and so on. Sometimes we suddenly gain abilities, or have them dramatically enhanced after spiritual enlightenment or Kundalini activation.

This is not awesome. This is disruptive and sometimes quite frightening. It can also be really hard on the body, if you don’t find ways to mediate the peculiar energy that often comes with these abilities.


Negative Self Talk: The Inner Dialogue

Is your inner talk show host a bully, critic, heckler, naysayer, worrier, doom monger, hysteric? What’s playing in that pretty head of yours? One of the inconvenient effects of enlightenment was the ability to perceive the inner dialogues of people around me. This made the world suddenly a much more violent, cruel and aggressive place. We polish up our exteriors to a lustrous shine, but our interiors are loud, turbid and less than benign.  I… read

Get a Grip: Life, Sex and Relationships After Kundalini Awakening

Reader Question: I really seem to attract men. But if I get intimate with them, some difficulties start to arise. I’m trying to see someone, but I’m a bit confused. Is it possible, that some kind of high frequency of mine could cause impotence in men? To be precise, they get “it” up, but cannot ejaculate. Or is it just this universally loving presence that causes all kinds of weird emotional reactions? If it is… read

The Power of No

The holidays are a wonderful time to embrace the potency of saying no. As I write this we’re putting a wrap on November and heading into the frenzy of winter holidays, American Style. Just insert yourself into your favorite Hieronymus Bosch painting, dole out a few Santa hats and candy canes and that’s pretty much what I’m talking about.  It’s the perfect time of year to practice saying no. Not an apologetic no, the one… read

The Neurological Effects of Being Ultra Sensory

Learning how to live Ultra Sensory takes some effort and finesse. The need for awareness and mastery with things like boundaries, recognizing what does not belong to you yet is in your space, processing energy through your body and grounding are crucial to staying healthy.  read